Yale University (#1 In photography)
In this second essay, Please reflect on something you would
like us to know about you that we might not learn from the rest of your
application, or on something about which you would like to say more. You may
write about anything—from personal experiences or interests to intellectual
pursuits.
“Hello?”
“Can I talk to your
mom?” Said the utterly noticeable voice
of my uncle
As I gave the phone to my
mom I knew something was wrong, Her mouth dropped from the moment she got the
phone. “Mikayla and Skylar go upstairs now.”
She hissed. My sister and I went upstairs; I began pondering what could have
aroused my mother that way. Upset enough to send us away from Christmas dinner.
I sat at the top of the stairs attempting to listen to the situation. All I
heard was crying everyone was in tears. I was so confused at what could have
possibly made them so upset. My dad came upstairs to tuck my sister and I in.
The next day my parents wouldn't even look at me. I went off to my friends,
still distracted. That night I got the news.
Christmas day 2008, my cousin Cory was cooking Christmas
breakfast when his friends asked for him to come and pick them up. Abandoning
the breakfast and leaving it to my uncle Randall he did. He was on his way home
with a car full of teenagers. That’s when it happened he hit black ice. Unable
to control the car he hit a tree. Cory Taylor was pronounced dead at the scene,
December 25, 2008. My cousin was gone.
Cory was like the brother I never had. We always had the best times. Playing with
the dog, tickle fights, hiking and running from their chickens. My clearest memory with him was the time we
were playing basketball to help him prepare for his game the next day. Cory and
I invited his brother Cody out to join us. The time we got to spend together
was special and rare. Now I was 4,439 miles and he was gone. Attending his
funeral wasn't an option for me. I didn't have that closure. This was the first
death I ever went through, I don’t know how to react. I was only 10 and I lost
the closest thing I had to a brother.
I lost my way. I looked up to him as a role model.
Eventually I could dry up my tears and see clearly. It was time to take
opportunities. I couldn't live in the past. Ever since that realization I have
always lived in the moment. I will not waste my days on humdrum everyday
activities. Let my feelings mellow out. I will always remember why I am
stronger. I will also always take risks.
Now,
I take chances when I get the chance. No matter how scared I get I am too
afraid to miss an opportunity. Life is so fragile don’t underestimate it. It
takes an emotional toll on everyone. Live while you can. Take all the chances
you get. Never miss an opportunity. Most importantly, shoot for the stars.